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Ngamaxesha athile, kuvela umkhwa omtsha wokhathalelo lolusu kwimidiya yethu yoluntu obonakala usanelisa kwaye unika ithemba. Kule meko, unyango lokukhanya okubomvu luyathandwa ngenxa yendlela yalo engangenisi ntlungu nengenabuhlungu. Isithembiso seRed Light Therapy (RLT) sokunciphisa imibimbi, amanxeba eempundu, kunye nemigca emincinci, phakathi kwezinye izinto, sisenza sizibuze: Ngaba iRed Light Therapy (RLT) yimfihlo yobuhle ekufuneka uyazi, okanye yinto nje yefashoni?
Unyango lweRed Light (RLT) lunyango olusebenzisa ubude bexesha lokukhanya okubomvu obuphantsi ukuphucula impilo yolusu, ukunciphisa ukudumba, kunye nokunciphisa iintlungu. Unyango ludla ngokwenziwa ngokubeka ulusu kukukhanya okubomvu, izixhobo, okanye ii-laser.
Ngaphakathi kwiiseli zethu zolusu kukho imithombo yamandla emincinci ebizwa ngokuba yi-mitochondria efunxa ukukhanya okubomvu kwaye ivelise amandla angakumbi. Iingcali zithi iingenelo zonyango lokukhanya okubomvu nokukufutshane ne-infrared kwinqanaba leeseli ziquka ukukhuthaza ukukhula nokusebenza kwe-mitochondrial kunye nokukhawulezisa ukuphiliswa kwamanxeba.
Unyango lokukhanya okubomvu lusebenza ngokungena eluswini ukuya kubunzulu obuyi-5 mm, luvuselela ukuveliswa kwe-collagen kunye ne-ATP (adenosine triphosphate). I-Collagen yiproteni enika ulusu ukuqina kwaye inceda ukunciphisa ukubonakala kwemibimbi, ngelixa i-ATP iyimolekyuli enika amandla kwiiseli ukuze zisebenze kakuhle. Ngoko ungatsho ukuba uvalelise loo mibimbi ye-acne kunye nemibimbi yangaphambi kwexesha.
Enye yezona nzuzo zibalulekileyo ze-RLT kukukwazi kwayo ukuphucula impilo yolusu. Kuye kwabonakala ukuba inciphisa ukubonakala kwemigca emincinci kunye nemibimbi kwaye iphucula ukuthungwa kolusu kunye nethoni. Inokunceda ekunciphiseni ukubonakala kwamanxeba, amanqaku okunwebeka, kunye namabala okuguga.
Kufunyenwe ukuba i-RLT ineempawu zokulwa nokuvuvukala ezinokunceda ukunciphisa iintlungu kunye nokudumba kwamalungu kunye nemisipha. Oku kuyenza ibe lunyango olusebenzayo lwe-arthritis, i-fibromyalgia, kunye nezinye iintlungu ezingapheliyo.
Ukongeza ekuphuculeni ulusu lwakho, i-RLT inokukunceda ukuphucula umgangatho wakho wokulala. Siyazi ukuba ikhefu lokuzinyamekela libaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yolusu njengokhathalelo lwesikhumba lwemihla ngemihla, ngoko ke ukusebenzisa ukukhanya okubomvu ukukhuthaza ukuveliswa kwe-melatonin kunokuba yindlela esebenzayo yokulawula iipateni zokulala kunye nokunciphisa ukungakwazi ukulala.
Nangona uphando oluthembisayo kunye neziphumo ezinxulumene nokusetyenziswa kokukhanya okubomvu, akukacaci ukuba unyango lokukhanya okubomvu (i-RLT) luyasebenza na kuzo zonke izinto ezifunekayo, iingcali zitsho. Nangona kunjalo, iingenelo ezinxulumene nesi sixhobo zanele ukuba uzihlolele ngokwakho.
Ukuba ufuna ukuzama unyango lokukhanya okubomvu ngokwakho, kukho izixhobo ezininzi zasekhaya ezifumanekayo ukuvavanya isiphumo sonyango. Nangona kunjalo, sihlala sicebisa ukuba udibane nogqirha wesikhumba oqinisekisiweyo yibhodi ngaphambi kokuba uzame unyango lokukhanya okubomvu wedwa.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unyango olubomvu luvakala njengonyango olulandelayo olungcono lokhathalelo lolusu olufunekayo kwinkqubo yakho, sidibanise uluhlu lweemaski ezilungileyo, iintambo, kunye nezixhobo onokuzizama.
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Ukuba ubukwi-intanethi kwiminyaka elishumi edlulileyo, amathuba okuba amagama athi Hey, Fran, Hey, kunye nelithi Shameless Maya (okwaziwa ngokuba yiMaya Washington) avele kwiscreen sakho. Aba benzi bomxholo bachukumisa yonke iqonga kwi-intanethi, besasaza uvuyo kwaye benceda abafazi kwihlabathi liphela ukuba baphile ubomi obungcono. Ukususela kumayeza endalo aphilisayo kaFran ukuya kumazwi obulumko kaMaya, bobabini abadali bomxholo bakhe abalandeli abathembekileyo ngokwabelana ngomxholo othembekileyo, oluncedo, kunye nobuthathaka. Kodwa bekhangela ubomi obuzisa ubuchule obungakumbi, inkululeko kunye nendawo, aba basebenzi bedijithali basuke kwizixeko ezikhulu ezixakekileyo (eNew York naseLos Angeles ngokulandelelana) baya kwiindawo ezikude, bethatha uphawu lwedijithali oludumileyo kunye nabo.
Ukusebenzisana neMeta Elevate — iqonga lokufunda elikwi-intanethi elibonelela ngoqeqesho lomntu ngamnye, uqeqesho lwezakhono zedijithali, kunye noluntu lwamashishini amnyama, amaHispanic, kunye namaLatino — xoNecole isandula ukusebenzisana noFrancesca Medina kunye noMaya Washington ukuze baphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo. IG. UFrank Thetha ngendlela abathatha ngayo elo thuba ngokutshintsha indawo okuyo ukuze ekugqibeleni bavelise okona kulungileyo kuwe nasemsebenzini wakho. UFran ngummi waseNew York owafudukela ePortland, eOregon esuka eNew York kunyaka ophelileyo. Eziva echulumancile kakhulu kukuxinana kobomi basezidolophini, uFran uya ePacific Northwest ekhangela ubomi obuzolileyo.
Iintshukumo zakhe zamazwe ngamazwe ziyimvelaphi yephulo lakhe elitsha neMeta Elevate, intengiso efanelekileyo ebonisa indlela onokunyuka ngayo ukusuka naphi na ngezixhobo zasimahla ezifana neMeta Elevate. Ngokufanayo, uMaya wagqiba ubomi bakhe eLos Angeles waza wafudukela eSweden, apho ngoku ahlala khona nomyeni wakhe nentombi yakhe entle. Ubomi bukaMaya busezilalini kwaye busefama kuneCalifornia, kodwa uyachuma kule ndawo intsha inoxolo njengoko efumana indlela yakhe njengomama omtsha.
Nangona uMaya esakha kwaye ephuhlisa uphawu lwakhe lwedijithali ngokuqhubekayo njengomama ozibiza ngokuba “ngumama othathe umhlala-phantsi kwangethuba,” uFran uphinda achaze umsebenzi wakhe. “Sele kudlule unyaka ukusukela oko ndafudukela ePortland, eOregon ndisuka eNew York,” utshilo uFurlan. “Ndicinga ukuba into endizama ukuyifumana ngoku kukuba ndingacotha njani ndize ndiphumelele.” Isantya esicothayo sobomi sivule amathuba amaninzi okudala kunye namathuba kula manenekazi kwaye incoko yethu nawo iyadingeka kakhulu. , Isikhumbuzo sokuba impumelelo yakho ayixhomekekanga kwindawo okuyo… ingakumbi ukuba i-Intanethi isemnweni wakho. Ukufikelela kwiindawo ezifana neMeta Elevate kunokunceda oosomashishini abamnyama, amaHispanic, namaLatino kunye nabadali bomxholo ukuba badibane nabantu abacinga ngendlela efanayo kwaye bafunde ngezakhono ezintsha zedijithali kunye nezixhobo ezinokunceda ukwandisa amashishini abo.
Ngexesha elimnandi ngexesha lencoko, uFran wanika uMaya iintyatyambo ebonakalisa ukwazisa umsebenzi wakhe wokuqala kwi-digital space. Xa i-Impact yayiseyintsha kwaye abadali bezama nje ukufumana indlela yabo, uFran uthi uMaya wayephambili kakhulu kwixesha lakhe. “Ndicinga ukuba uMaya ngomnye wabaqalisi be-digital space,” utshilo uFran. “UMaya ngumatshini womntu omnye kwaye ndisoloko ndimxelela ukuba ngokwenene utshintsha indlela iintengiso, iiphulo kunye neevidiyo ngokubanzi ekufuneka zibukeke ngayo.”
Xa ebuzwa ukuba angacebisa ntoni abenzi bomxholo, uMaya uthe eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuzithemba, nokuba awukayiboni imiphumo okwangoku. “Nokuba ubeka intliziyo nomphefumlo wakho kuyo, isenokungazuzi ngendlela ocinga ngayo, kulula ukubona ukuba kulula kangakanani,” utshilo. “Usaziphatha ngokubhekiselele kuthando nokunyaniseka. Yiba nokholo kwaye wenze umsebenzi. Abantu abaninzi bacinga kakuhle, kodwa loo nto yinxalenye yokucinga. Kufuneka ubeke iinkolelo zakho emsebenzini kwaye uwenze.”
Ukuqukumbela, uFran ukhuthaza abenzi bomxholo kunye nabatshali-mali abanomdla ukuba basebenzise izibonelelo ezininzi zeMeta Elevate ukuze bafunde indlela yokwakha nokukhulisa amashishini kwi-intanethi. “Kwandithatha iminyaka elishumi ukufikelela kwinqanaba apho ndandikwintengiso yale nqanaba,” utshilo. “Ngo-2010, bendingenazo ezi zixhobo. Ndiyawuthanda umanyano neMeta Elevate kuba babonelela ngezi zixhobo simahla. Ndicinga nje ngabantu ababengenakukwazi ukuhlawulela olu hlobo lwemfundo nolwazi. Ngoko ke ukukhulisa inkampani enjalo kubonakala ngathi yi-ewe”.
Bukela incoko epheleleyo kwikhonkco elingasentla kwaye ujoyine uluntu lweMeta Elevate ukuze uqhagamshelane nezinye iinkampani kunye nabadali be-#OnTheRiseTogether.
Kwisitudiyo esisedolophini eLos Angeles, onke amehlo ayejonge kuChloe. Phakathi kokucofa nokuchwayitha kweekhamera, ushukumisa umzimba wakhe ngobunono kwimvelaphi emnyama, ngoku ekhupha imilebe yakhe ngendlela ekhangayo, ngoku ejonge emehlweni akhe ngendlela ehlabayo. Ibrownie yakhe yayihonjiswe ngamatye anqabileyo ambalwa, awacela ukuba ayenze ibe nongwe, waza wacela ukuba igxalaba livuleke ukuze libonise kakuhle intamo yakhe (“Ndiziva ndimdala kancinci,” utshilo ngesikhokelo sokuqala). Ubume bakhe obuncinci babufakwe kwi-bodysuit engenantambo ene-V neckline enzulu ehambelana ne-neckline yakhe egobileyo.
Nangona icocekile, impahla yakhe ezolileyo ikhumbuza umfazi okhe wafika apha ngaphambili kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi into ayenzayo. Uneminyaka engama-24 kuphela ubudala, uyintombazana “enamandla” ekuqeqeshweni – enembeko, engagungqiyo kwaye efunda amandla elizwi lakhe.
“Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyathandabuza ukuthetha into endiyicingayo nokuthetha ngam nento endiyikholelwayo,” watsho kum kamva kwiiveki ezimbalwa emva kokufotwa kweefoto. “Bendisoloko ndisoyika, kodwa ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba kufuneka ndenze oku ukuze ndihlonitshwe njengomfazi omnyama – umfazi omnyama osemtsha – osakhangela ubuwena bakhe. Uyazi, ndaqonda ukuba andinakwanela kukugcina umlomo wam uvaliwe. Ukuba ndivala umlomo wam kuba ndoyika into abantu abaya kuyicinga ngam, loo nto ayiyondlela yokuphila.”
KuChloe, uhambo lomfazi lumalunga nokuzamkela ngaphandle kokuvumela oko abanye bakucingayo ngaye. Ngaphezulu kwesinqe, umele yonke into onokuyicinga. Uthixokazi omhle onobuhle besondo anqwenela ukububamba kodwa akanakubukhanyisa. Kodwa kungaziwa mntu owayengekho apho, umzimba wakhe ongezantsi wawugqunywe yilokhwe emhlophe, kwaye ngokumangalisayo, le ntombazana yazingca “kuba ndinezinqe ezinkulu” kwingoma yayo yokuqala ethi “Ndinenceba.”
Kodwa bubuhle bukaChloe obo. Kukho okungakumbi kuye kunokuba kubonakala emehlweni. Iifoto ezimbalwa ezinomtsalane ezisasazeke kwi-Instagram feed yakho aziyi kukuxelela okuninzi. Njengomfanekiso wefreyimu yefoto awubonisa esinqeni ukuya phezulu, esikwaziyo ngalo mculi yincam nje yeqhwa. Kukho okungakumbi ngaphantsi komphezulu.
Emva kweeyure, uChloe ugoba esitulweni sakhe kwaye ibhanti lakhe liguquka ukusuka ekubeni lelo liqhelekileyo ukuya kwelo libonakala liphefumlelwe yiBasquiat. Yayibubugcisa obupheleleyo kwaye, ngesicelo sakhe, isinxibo sasingenazo iiwigi ngaloo mini. Wazamkela ngokupheleleyo iinwele zakhe zendalo, isigqibo esasingamkelekanga rhoqo eluntwini.
Kwidolophu yaseAtlanta, eGeorgia (eMableton, ukuba nditsho ngqo), uChloe uqala ukuphonononga iziseko zendlela azijonga ngayo. Esemncinci, yena nodadewabo omncinci uHolly batsala ingqalelo yabazali babo ngamazwi abo kunye nobuchule babo phambi kwekhamera. Kungekudala bathunyelwa kwimiboniso yeetalente zasekuhlaleni kunye novavanyo, kwaye ekugqibeleni bangena kwindawo yedijithali ngokukhupha amaqweqwe eengoma kwiYouTube.
Kwakukule minyaka yokuqala apho uKhloe waqala ukufunda ukuba ishishini lokuzonwabisa linokuba nonya kwabo bangahlangabezani nemigangatho ethile yobuhle. Nangona umntwana oneminyaka emithathu ubudala ngelo xesha wayedlala uLilly, uhlobo olutsha lomlinganiswa kaBeyoncé kwiFight Against Temptation, iiarhente zokulinganisa zafuna ukuba indlela yakhe yendalo ithathelwe indawo yindlela yokwenza iinwele egxile kakhulu kwi-Euro. Okumangalisayo kukuba, xa wayesengumntwana, uChloe wayecinga ukuba iinwele zakhe zazingahlukanga kwiinwele zontanga bakhe. “Ndikhumbula ngakumbi xa sasingabantwana abancinci kwakufuneka sizizobe imifanekiso kwaye ndandizizoba ngeponytail eqhelekileyo ethe tye njengokuba ndandineenwele kwiponytail,” utshilo. “Andizange ndizibone ngokwahlukileyo.”
UChloe wayeza kufunda nentsingiselo yokwenyani yeli binzana, elathi kamva laba yingxelo ebhalwe kwisipili sakhe segumbi lokulala: “Musa ukuvumela ihlabathi linciphise ukukhanya kwakho.” Nangona kunjalo, xa befika kwiindaba eziphambili, baza kuhleka okokugqibela “njengesibini esiselula esineentloni” esatyikitya isivumelwano sezigidi zeerandi neParkwood Entertainment saza safumana inkathalo enqwenelekayo phantsi koqeqesho lwenkwenkwezi edumileyo yehlabathi i-Opportunity.
Nangona oku kusenokuba sisiphelo sebali elihle lokuziqinisekisa, inyaniso kukuba esi sisiqalo nje sebali lakhe lokuzivelela. Kumantombazana amaninzi, ukutshintshela ekubeni ngabafazi kwenzeka ngokukhululeka kwihlabathi labo, kudla ngokulinganiselwa linani labantu abavumela ukufikelela kubo. Kodwa kuChloe, kwenzeke phambi kwezigidi zabantu abagxekayo ababelinde ithuba lokumphakamisa okanye ukumhlalutya ngezimvo ezingenasiseko.
Abantu abaninzi abakwisikhundla sakhe abanakukwazi ukumelana nolo hlobo loxinzelelo. Kodwa uChloe uluphatha kakuhle olu xinzelelo. “Ndivakalelwa kukuba sonke singabantu kwaye sinelungelo lokutolika izinto ngendlela esiyifunayo,” utshilo. “Ndikhulula ubugcisa emhlabeni kwaye ndilinde ukutolikwa. Ndaqonda ukuba andizukuhlala ndithandwa ngumntu wonke, kwaye kulungile oko.”
UChloe akangomculi wokuqala ukugxekwa ngokuziphatha okubi, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akangowokugqibela. Ngo-2010, xa uCiara oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala wapapasha ividiyo yakhe ethi “Ride”, walwa neBET waza waya elubhacweni. Ngo-2006, uBeyoncé oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala wagxekwa ngoDeja Vu.
Kangangokuba abalandeli abangaphezu kwama-5,000 batyikitye isicelo esikwi-intanethi esicela inkampani yokurekhoda ukuba yenze kwakhona le vidiyo kuba “inemifanekiso engamanyala kakhulu.” KwanoJanet oneminyaka engama-27 ubudala waba ngundaba-mlonyeni xa watshintsha inkangeleko yakhe engenatyala waza wajonga into engcolileyo kwiphephancwadi likaJanet lika-1993.
Kwabaselula abamnyama abathanda i-R&B, ukugxekwa esidlangalaleni kwakubonakala ngathi yindlela eqinisekileyo yokufumana udumo. Amantombazana amahle abonakala “esiba mabi” xa emkela ubunzulu bobufazi, kwaye abalandeli bakuthanda kuphela ngokomfuziselo. Kodwa uChloe ufunde ukungathobeli uluvo lomnye umntu, kodwa ukulawula uphuhliso lwembali. Njengoko isitsho, kunzima ukuba umfazi olungileyo angene kwimbali. Ukuba isondo sisixhobo sakhe, usisebenzisa kakuhle.
Kwiseti, uKhloe wabonakalisa amandla ka-Aphrodite enxibe ilokhwe ebomvu yeapile enomngxuma ophezulu. Phakathi kwemifanekiso, uthetha amazwi kaYebba athi “Boomerang”, aphindaphindayo rhoqo kulo lonke isithuba njengoko ndimcebisa. Kusebusuku, kodwa uChloe uyafudumala njengoko amehlo akhe ejonge intombazana etshayo.
Ngomculo, uhlola ubunzulu bobuntu bakhe, uhambo olubonakala lusekelwe ekuzifumaneni. Ngelixa i-albhamu yabo yokuqala ethi The Kids Are Alright (2018) ibandakanya uChloe noHalle abancinci, bevumela isizukulwana sabo ukuba sizamkele ngokufumana indawo yabo ehlabathini, kwaye i-albhamu yabo yesibini ethi Ungodly Hour (2020) ibonisa oodade baseBailey belahla ubumsulwa babo ukuze bafumane ubugorha obungenasiphako.
Abalandeli balindele ngolangazelelo ukuba uKhloe atyhile ubuwena bakhe kwi-albhamu yakhe yokuqala, i-In Pieces. Kudliwanondlebe nePeople, uvumile ukuba ukukhupha iprojekthi yakhe yokuqala ngaphandle kodadewabo “kwakuyoyikisa”. “Yayilixesha lokuzithandabuza kwaye ndacinga, ‘Ndingakwenza oku ngaphandle kodadewethu?’”
UKhloe akakaze abe namahloni okwabelana ngokungaqiniseki kwakhe okanye ubuthathaka bakhe, kwaye konke oku kubonakala kwi-albhamu eneengoma ezili-14. “Ndiyathemba ukuba abantu bayakonwabela ukumamela oku baze baqonde ukuba ababodwa kwaye kulungile ukuba buthathaka kwaye bavuleleke kuba akukho namnye kuthi ogqibeleleyo; sonke sikude nayo. Ndicinga ukuba xa sonke sivuma, yiyo indlela yokulungisa xa kungaphezulu nje kwento engeyonyani.”
Ngesipho sexesha, lo mculi ozibiza ngokuba yi-“Girl in Love” uneengxoxo zothando nezibuhlungu ngakumbi. Iingoma zothando ezazikhe zaculwa kwiiriffs ezintle kunye neengoma zazingasengomazwi nje angabonakaliyo, kodwa zathatyathelw’ indawo ngamava okwenyani, ngokutsho kwakhe, awayesoloko ekho kumculo.
Umzekelo, kwingoma yakhe ethi “Pray It Away”, ucinga ngokufuna ukuphiliswa nguThixo endaweni yokuziphindezela kwisithandwa sakhe sangaphambili ngenxa yokungathembeki kwakhe. “Ndisengozini enkulu kuyo nayiphi na into enxulumene nobugcisa,” utshilo. “Ndingumntu endinguye ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndicacile ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ke yiloo nto ndinguye kwaye ndingubani ngoku.”
Ngaba uChloe ukhe wathandana? Oku akukathethwa. Ewe, udibene nabanye abantu abanokuba ngabathandi, kodwa ukuthandana kwixesha ledijithali akulula njengokucofa kabini okanye ukuphosa i-emoji yentliziyo. Oku kufuna inqanaba lokuthembana kunye nokuba sesichengeni okunzima ukukufumana kwaye kulula ukukuxhaphaza. Ukumcela ukuba ayeke ukulinda kunokumdanisa. "Inyaniso kukuba, ukuthandana kunzima ngoku kuba kufuneka uhlale ujonge kwaye uqaphele ukuba ngubani okungqongileyo. Uyazi, ndingumntu onyanisekileyo, kwaye ndithanda kakhulu."
"Ngoko ke xa ndidibana nomntu endimthanda ngokwenene, ndiba nexesha elinzima lokubona abanye abantu kwaye ndithanda ukunamathelana. Uyazi, andazi, yinto embi kakhulu."
Nangona iintliziyo ezaphukileyo zenza umculo omnandi (uAdele emgceni), imithandazo kaChloe imalunga nokufuna uvuyo. Indlela olubonakala ngayo. Kaloku, usaluqonda ngokwakhe. “Inene, ndingumntu ofunda izinto ngokuziva nje. Ngoko ke ndiyakwazi ukubona nokujonga abazali bam nokujonga ubudlelwane bothando endibubona ebomini bam kwaye kufana nokuthi, “Owu, ndiyalufuna. Ndingathanda ukuba nalo. Kodwa kufuneka ndizivavanye [ndizithande] ukuze ndibone ukuba ziziphi iintsilelo okanye iimpazamo zam, okanye ukuze ndibone ukuba ziziphi amandla am. Ndivakalelwa kukuba lolona kwenyani. Luphathelele ukuzihlolisisa. … Nangona isiseko sethu lusapho lwethu, sisisiseko sethu eso, sisengabantu bethu kwaye kufuneka sifumanise ezinye izinto ngathi ezinokuba zahlukile kwinto esikhulele kuyo. Abazali bakubona ngokwahlukileyo.”
Undixelele ukuba isoka lakhe elifanelekileyo ngumntu aziva ekhuselekile kuye ukuba abe nomdla kwaye abe nomtsalane, kodwa omnika ithuba lokuba yinkosikazi ephethe amaphupha akhe. Indoda eqonda oku, kuba nje ihlabathi limncoma, akuthethi ukuba ayifuni ukuva la mazwi emlonyeni wayo okanye ukuwava xa iwachukumisa. Bekuya kuba kuhle ukuba ifike kwiseti emva kosuku olunzima emsebenzini kunye nee-vegan cinnamon rolls. Uyazi, izinto ezibalulekileyo. "Ndiyathanda xa abantu endinabo behlala bendixelela ukuba bayandithanda kwaye ndibukeka ndimhle kuba nam ndimhle. ngokuvakalayo. Ndifuna wonke umntu endisebenza naye enze okufanayo, avuleleke kakhulu. Ndixelele ukuba uyandithanda. Ndixelele ukuba uthanda ntoni ngam kuba nam ndenza okufanayo kuwe kuba ndingumntu onjalo."
Wayetshatile nalo mdlalo ngaphambi kokuba adibane nomntu athandana naye, kwaye njengoko kunjalo, kubonakala ngathi ngumtshato ogqibeleleyo.
Eqongeni kwiMbasa yoMculo yaseMelika ka-2021, uKhloe waqinisa isikhundla sakhe njengegunya elifanele ukuqwalaselwa. Eli lixesha elibalulekileyo. Ngo-2012, uChloe noHolly abanamehlo aqaqambileyo, ababukeka beselula bathabatha isethi ye-Ellen DeGeneres Show baza bothusa abaphulaphuli ngokucula iingoma ezivela kubacebisi babo bexesha elizayo. UEllen wanika oodade amatikiti kwi-AMA waza wathembisa ukuba baza kubuya babe nekamva eliqaqambileyo. Kwiminyaka elithoba kamva, uChloe wenza i-debut yakhe yokuqala, ehla esibhakabhakeni enxibe i-cape emhlophe njengekhephu kunye ne-bodysuit ehambelanayo. Eli lixesha lakhe lokuqala eqongeni kumsitho wokunikezelwa kwamabhaso kwaye ebekho kubaphulaphuli ngaphambili.
Kuyacaca ukuba ukwimeko yakhe njengoko engcangcazela kwaye egungqa kwaye ebetha ngamandla njengoko ebala ukuya kwisibhozo. Njengomboniso wakhe we-VMA kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, kwaye njengoko eqhubeka nokwenza kwezinye izigaba ezininzi, uzisa amandla amthelekisa noKumkanikazi uBey othandekayo. Libango elihloniphekileyo xa ucinga ukuba bambalwa kangakanani abaculi be-R&B abafumana udumo ngezakhono zabo zokuzonwabisa. Kwakukwezo zigaba, phambi kwamakhulu amehlo amangalisayo kunye nezigidi zabantu ababukele iTV ekhaya, apho wandixelela ukuba uzive enomtsalane. enamandla, nkqu.
Akazange aphenjelelwe kuphela zizimvo malunga nomfanekiso wakhe kunye namahemuhemu anyuswa ngamajelo eendaba. Engqondweni, ukhuphisana naye. Umnqweno wokuba ngcono kunokuba anjalo utshisa entlokweni yakhe ngayo yonke imiboniso, yonke imiboniso kunye nalo lonke ixesha engena kwi-booth. Ngaphambili, wayenokwabelana ngalo mthwalo nodadewabo. Ukuba yinxalenye ye-duo kuthetha ukuba wayenokuya kuHolly ukuze afumane inkuthazo kunye nenkuthazo ngaphandle kokutshintshiselana nelizwi elinye. Kodwa ukuya eqongeni kutshanje kwakuthetha ukuya yedwa. Nangona uKhloe eyinkwenkwezi emangalisayo ephumelele iGrammy kahlanu, akayishiyi into yokuba ngamanye amaxesha singabagxeki bethu ababi kakhulu.
Kunyaka ophelileyo, uye wazamkela ukuba ungubani, ngelixa esoyisa uloyiko lokungabi yiloo nto wayefanele ukuba yiyo. Ngelixa ihlabathi lilindele ukubona uChloe ephumelela, uloyiso lokwenyani lukwimihla azikhethela yona kwaye uyaqhubeka esiya kwiinjongo zakhe yonke imihla. “Inene, andinakucinga nto. Kodwa ndifuna ukuthandaza kakhulu. Ndithetha noThixo ngakumbi kwaye ndizama nje ukwenza izinto zokuzola ingqondo yam nokuphefumla.”
Kuninzi ekufuneka akunike kwaye kuninzi ekufuneka akucele. Ukhethe le ndlela ngesizathu. Nje ukuba avume ngokupheleleyo ukuba yonke into ayifunayo sele ingaphakathi kuye, uya kuba ngamandla angenakuthintelwa. “Umakhulu wam uElizabeth usandul’ ukusweleka kwaye igama lam eliphakathi ligama lakhe. Ngoko ke ndivakalelwa kukuba ndinoxanduva lokuphila ngokwelifa lakhe emhlabeni. Ndiyathemba ukuba ndingakwazi.”

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